Summer is usually associated with a more relaxed, care-free feel, even if you don’t go away on vacation. But for those suffering from domestic violence, summer can bring dread and an increase in danger. There are a variety of reasons why summer often brings an uptick in domestic violence, and understanding why can help you recognize danger signs and take proactive measures to lower the risk in your home. Most importantly, it’s crucial to know that you have options. You don’t have to stay in an unsafe environment and there is help available.
Reasons Why Domestic Violence Spikes in the Summer
1. More Time at Home Together
Summer often means school is out and families are spending more time under one roof. In homes where things already feel tense, this extra time together can lead to more fights and more chances for violence.
2. Heat and Tempers Don’t Mix
Hot weather doesn’t just make us uncomfortable, it can raise stress levels. Studies have shown that extreme heat can affect our emotions and lead to quicker tempers. If someone in the home is already angry or controlling, the heat can make things worse.
3. Increased Alcohol Use
Summer parties, barbecues, and long weekends often involve alcohol. For some, drinking can lead to poor decisions and a loss of control. In abusive relationships, this often leads to more violence.
4. Less Structure, Fewer Eyes
During the school year, teachers, coaches, and other adults often spot signs of abuse and speak up. In summer, when routines break and support systems are less active, those warning signs may go unnoticed.
5. More Financial Pressure
Vacations, summer camps, and higher electric bills can put stress on a household budget. When finances are already tight, this pressure can lead to arguments or more controlling behavior, especially in homes where power and control are already issues.
What You Can Do if You Are Experiencing Domestic Violence
If you’re in a dangerous situation, please know this: you have options and you are not alone. As a family law firm, Bauer & Karch helps clients every day who are ready to take the first step toward safety. Here’s what we recommend:
- Talk to someone you trust. Opening up is a good first step toward getting help, whether you turn to a friend, family member, or someone from your community.
- Reach out to local resources. Long Island has trusted domestic violence shelters and hotlines that offer safe housing, legal help, and support.
- Make a safety plan. Keep important documents, medications, and cash in a safe spot so you can leave quickly if needed.
- Teach children what to do. If you have kids, talk to them calmly about what to do during a crisis, like how to call for help or where to go.
We’re Here to Help
At Bauer & Karch, we understand that leaving an abusive situation is not easy. We are here to offer legal guidance and connect you with the right resources to help you and your family stay safe. If you need help with a protective order, custody issue, or simply understanding your rights, contact us today.
You deserve to feel safe during the summer and all year long.